Hyper-masculinity? Toxic-masculinity? What is this masculinity thing that is painted as such a blight on society?
Why is there is never any mention of toxic femininity when (to varying extents) many of the same issues apply? Just look at my posts on for example, female violence, lack of empathy, sexual abuse by women, and damseling and the shameless exploitation of male chivalry.
The articles below all address the concept of masculinity, alternately either from a feminist, egalitarian, MHRA or another alternate position:
‘A fatal miscalculation’: masculinity researcher Richard Reeves on why Democrats lost young men (9 November 2024) USA
Did sexism propel Donald Trump to power? (9 November 2024) USA
Kamala’s Anti-Male Sexism Drove Men from the Democratic Fold (7 November 2024) USA
The sad truth is that anti-feminist backlash helped propel Trump to victory (6 November 2024) and another related item ‘No sex, no babies: 4B Movement goes viral after Donald Trump US election win‘ (8 November 2024)
Regarding the #NotAllMen assertion (October 2024)
‘Toxic masculinity’ is toxic terminology (3 July 2024)
Masculinity isn’t toxic, it’s the tonic society needs. An interview with therapist, Professor Miles Groth (27 October 2023)
Fears for Australian women as more die allegedly at the hands of young men and experts speak out (16 April 2024) Hey, let’s ignore the men and boys killed, the growing perpetration of abuse committed by women, and in fact any thought of holding women accountable … for anything
Helping young men to have healthy, respectful relationships (25 October 2023) Australian Federal Government media release. Another $3.5 million down the feminist toilet
Landmark research study finds clear evidence of pro-women/anti-men bias (28 September 2023)
In praise of heroic masculinity (30 August 2023)
The Best Way to Find Out If Someone Is a Trump Voter? Ask Them What They Think About Manhood (14 July 2023) Written by Katelyn Fossett
Andrew Tate’s Career as the Baddest Boy on the Internet Might Be Over (16 January 2023)
This man really knows how to deal with kids playing on the driveway (3 July 2022) Video
The words Will Smith didn’t need to say in his latest apology (2 April 2022) The female journalist implores readers to go easy on Will (for many reasons as listed). The journalist uses the term ‘toxic masculinity’ but then states that “In no way, shape or form did Smith’s actions harm the people attending the Oscars, or anyone watching at home.” Whilst it’s rare to see people being asked to show empathy for men, what’s the bet that it’s only happening here because Will is perceived to have ‘done it for a woman’? #WhiteKnight
‘Will Smith, we don’t need men to protect us’ (28 March 2022) Meanwhile, in real life and starting immediately after Will Smith hit Chris Rock, the media began exposing women stating things like “Gee, I wish I had a man to protect me like that!” #EyeFlutter
The tragedy of modern love (25 July 2022)
Men love women more than women love men (22 July 2022)
Gender Self-Confidence as a Protective Factor for Suicide Risk: Analysis of the Sample of Lithuanian Men (23 May 2022)
Buy a real shaver – Jeremy’s razors (22 March 2022) Video satire, though meaningful
Oh but men commit 95% of all violence, blah blah blah (18 March 2022) Some real stats about the prevalence of male violence
How much do you know about male psychology? (2022) Video
A Philosopher ponders ‘What Do Men Want?’ Insights and quotations from Nina Power’s book (14 February 2022) Book review
‘Dehumanizing the male’. Another book review (2 December 2021)
Testosterone Administration Induces A Red Shift in Democrats (2021)
When did traditional masculinity become toxic? (25 November 2021)
Is toxic masculinity the reason there are so many climate-hesitant men? (13 November 2021)
Stop calling people ‘toxic’. Here’s why | Hannah Baer | The Guardian (26 July 2021)
Tweet regarding men expressing emotion (9 July 2021)
Man expresses enthusiasm = creep. Man expresses frustration = incel. Man expresses anger = toxic. Man expresses sadness = weak. Man shares emotions other than happiness = emotional labor. Man shares no emotions at all = emotionally distant
How Has Feminism Been for Young Men, with Tristan Glosby // Men are Talking Podcast – Episode 1 – YouTube (7 July 2021)
Stop Emasculating Men, Then Wondering Where All The Good Men Went (thefederalist.com) (14 June 2021)
Gender Equality and Where Feminism Gets It Wrong – Woke Father (24 May 2021)
The push to “Raise Boys Right” implies that men need to be fixed (20 April 2021)
The pandemic of male loneliness (24 February 2021)
China’s gender roles: War on ‘feminisation’ aims to build boys’ ‘masculinity’ (5 February 2021)
The Atlantic obviously doesn’t have any idea ‘What it means to be a man’ (19 February 2020)
Can we talk about ‘Toxic Femininity’ yet? (22 July 2020)
Watch: Daily Wire’s Matt Walsh on modern culture destroying masculinity (20 November 2019)
Well, America, Gillette’s idiotic ad may have finally turned the tide on ‘toxic masculinity’ (22 January 2019) USA
Masculinity isn’t a sickness (16 January 2019)
Traditional masculinity has been dubbed ‘harmful’ by a major health body (16 January 2019) with related tweet her
Psychology as indoctrination: Girls rule, Boys drool? (15 January 2019)
Barbara Kay: American Psychological Association declares masculinity an “ideology” (12 January 2019)
You can’t help men by attacking masculinity, by Dr John Barry (27 November 2018)
Male authority – Be a “Man”, by Rollo Tomassi (13 November 2018)
Brown University Offering Programs for ‘Unlearning Toxic Masculinity’ (25 October 2018) See related tweet from James Woods
The fact that we’re considering making misandry a hate crime should concern everyone who believes in equality (17 October 2018)
The mysterious invisibility of men’s good deeds, by Mark Dent (14 July 2018)
Feminism: Toxic Masculinity (26 June 2018)
Why men are refusing to help women and children (6 June 2018) Video (and also take a look at this Jim Muldoon article on the same theme)
How feminists developed ‘Toxic Masculinity’ (14 June 2018)
Rethinking Gender, Sexuality and Violence (25 October 2017)
Charts – Where You Fall on the Alpha / Beta Scale (9 October 2017)
Does the NRL have a culture problem? (13 September 2017) Video
Duke recruits men for program to fight ‘toxic’ masculinity (13 September 2017)
Houston Rescuers Prove the Lie of ‘Toxic Masculinity’ (1 September 2017)
Andrew Cadman: We are paying a high price for the feminisation of Britain (3 August 2017)
Delingpole: Too Much ‘Maleness,’ Complains Feminist Reviewer of ‘Dunkirk’ (2 August 2017)
We’re doomed and only women can save the day (20 July 2017) How men think of, and treat other men, is part of the problem.
SJW DYLAN MARRON GETS OWNED l Response to Unboxing Trump’s America and Masculinity l SJW Cringe (6 July 2017) Video
First police officer at London Bridge attack “was rugby player who took on all terrorists until forced to ground” (4 June 2017) UK
Study: Most Women Like ‘Manly’ Men, Don’t Worry About ‘Toxic Masculinity’ (13 May 2017)
The epidemic of sexless marriage is symptomatic of the modern emasculated husband (undated/2017)
The ‘Toxic Masculinity’ Trend Blames Boys For Being Born Male (12 April 2017)
Missed a spot, by Dalrock (1 March 2017)
E.B. White’s Touching Letter to Man Who Lost Hope in Humanity (27 February 2017)
Feminists wage war against romance on Valentine’s Day (14 February 2017)
Gender wars: Is masculinity toxic for boys? (9 February 2017) Reddit discussion thread and linked video
Toxic masculinity: Will the ‘war on men’ only backfire? (28 January 2017) Australia. Related Reddit discussion thread here.
‘Toxic masculinity’ is ruining men’s lives, by Corrine Barraclough (26 January 2017)
Dear Feminists, male vulnerability isn’t a virtue (3 January 2017)
Today (30 December 2016) I noticed two articles that took a now common approach of using/portraying generally positive attributes associated with masculinity (protectiveness towards women & risk-taking behaviour) in order to mock or criticize men:
Men are weirdly concerned about trans women’s use of female bathrooms according to new study and Drownings blamed on men’s risky behaviour
Male college students to undergo ‘critical self-reflection’ of masculinity (3 January 2017)
Feminist Prof: Cats are the solution to ‘Toxic Masculinity’ (15 December 2016)
To what should males aspire? (15 December 2016)
No Gender December: When did ‘gender’ become such a dirty word? (13 December 2016) Australia
The miseducation of young men, part 3 (9 December 2016)
Why women can’t complain about men (4 December 2016) Video
Masculine white men more likely to be mentally ill, says new ‘study’ (22 November 2016)
Why Colleges Should Stop Teaching “Toxic Masculinity” (16 November 2016)
The False Dichotomy of Feminist Ethics (11 October 2016)
‘Toxic White Masculinity’: What is it all about? (10 October 2016) USA
If gender is a social construct, why aren’t women ever accused of exhibiting toxic masculinity? (9 October 2016) Reddit discussion thread
What will feminists accomplish by defining masculinity as toxic and pathological? (8 October 2016)
This Woman Never Looked At Her Fiancé The Same Way After He Abandoned Her During A Violent Mugging: Toxic lack of masculinity? Reddit discussion thread and linked article.
‘Effeminism’ and the War on Boys (23 September 2016)
It’s not Muslims or people with mental health problems who are most likely to kill you in a terrorist attack – it’s men, by Janey Stephenson (28 July 2016)
Oddly, there has recently been other articles very similar to this one published in different countries, but with ostensibly different authors. See ‘What mass killers really have in common’, by Rebecca Traister (17 July 2016) and ‘One group is responsible for America’s culture of violence, and it isn’t cops, black Americans, Muslims or rednecks. It’s men‘, by Melissa Batchelor Warnke
And here is an MRA response to the type of article listed above: ‘The bizarre feminist response to Islamic terror in Orlando‘ (27 July 2016)
I Am A Transwoman. I Am In The Closet. I Am Not Coming Out (11 March 2016)
Joy of Masculinity (9 June 2016)
YouGov Poll: Only 2% of men aged 18-24 feel masculine (20 May 2016) UK
The Myth of the Masculinity Crisis (9 May 2016)
As a female college student, what can I do to empower my male friends who are (seemingly) very emasculated and don’t stand up for themselves? (9 May 2016) Reddit mensrights discussion thread
‘Masculinity isn’t toxic — our attitudes to it are’ (8 May 2016) UK
Violence in Men vs Women. Things aren’t how they seem (6 May 2016) Reddit discussion thread
Miranda Devine: Stop telling boys to act like girls (24 April 2016) Australia
39 Things Women Will Just NEVER Understand About Being A Man (14 April 2016)
Shaming Men Doesn’t Build Healthy Sexuality (9 April 2016)
New York Times: ‘Teaching Men to be Emotionally Honest’ (4 April 2016) with related Reddit discussion thread here
Toxic Femininity and Heroism (14 March 2016) Australia
Female counselor says men are increasingly ashamed of their masculinity (28 January 2016) UK
European Queens Waged More Wars Than Kings (27 January 2016)
How the European male was turned by the feminist into a “WIMP, PUSSY, AND MANGINA”, is it on it’s way here? (25 January 2016)
European men now being criticized for their lack of masculinity (25 January 2016) Video
Audio: Karen Straughan’s brilliant lecture on “toxic masculinity and toxic femininity” at SFU (21 November 2015)
Question to feminists regarding “toxic masculinity” (29 July 2015) Reddit discussion thread
Male Definition of Masculinity Is a Surprise – Toxic Masculinity Debunked (2008) with reddit discussion thread here
Feminism’s Real Target is Masculinity (December 2014)
It’s time to do away with the concept of ‘manhood’ altogether (29 October 2015) Nauseating pieces penned by mangina journo for The Guardian, but which attracted plenty of reader’s comments
“Toxic Masculinity” is hate speech. Full stop. It pathologies maleness and attempts to link violence to men’s culture. Feminists discussing “toxic masculinity” is little different than white supremacists attacking “ni**** culture” and “black violence” Reddit mensrights discussion thread (15 October 2015)
‘Real men don’t hit women’: The big problem with Malcolm Turnbull’s anti domestic violence message (10 October 2015) Australia. I agree with the prolem with the ‘real men’ message, but much about this article is wrong, not least the assertion by Michael Salter that female violence only occurs in the context of self-defence, and that the fact that most people in jail are male is proof that men are responsible for most crime.
Salon blames Oregon shooting on ‘traditional masculinity’ (9 October 2015)
Are today’s standards for being a ‘real man’ leading to violence against women? (8 October 2015) Australia. But what of violence BY women?
How to stop mass shootings (2 October 2015) and related https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/3n8xmn/new_from_milo_yiannopoulos_on_the_root_cause_of/
Vanderbilt Women’s Center to Lecture Men on ‘Healthy Masculinities’ (31 August 2015)
Masculinity and Violent Behavior: A Complex, Combustible Relationship (25 August 2015) and related reddit discussion thread
Masculinity is more than a mask, by Christina Hoff Sommers (13 January 2014)
What would happen if no men showed up for work today? (17 September 2013)
The End of Men, by Hanna Rosin (July/August 2010 edition of The Atlantic)
Manhood in the Making: Cultural Concepts of Masculinity (15 October 1991) with more here
Further sources yet to be reviewed:
Further posts within this blog that may be of interest:
On being male or female (incl. innate differences, stereotyping and so on)
