On sexual assault and unwanted sex

Every year both men and women and girls and boys are raped. Rape is never OK. There is also a very significant and growing incidence of people falsely accusing others of rape. To knowingly falsely accuse someone of rape is also never OK.

Such false claims can destroy the lives of the accused, and more importantly diminish and demean the validity of those who have actually been victims of rape. To make matters worse, the US Government is now requiring university campuses to undertake hearings and pass judgement on those accused of sexual assault even before the police become involved. This matter is discussed here and in many other recent articles.

The coverage, by feminists, of the issue of rape is often both exaggerated and  distorted, for example through the use of ridiculously broad definitions of what actions constitute ‘sexual assault’. The discussion of rape, by feminists, is also incredibly one-sided … addressing the rape of females is of paramount importance whilst the rape of males (by both men and women) is inconsequential.

The linked resources below explore a number of aspects of this important issue:

Education Dept: 90 Percent Of Sexual Assault Accusations Are The Result Of Regret And Drunk Sex (12 July 2017)

New CDC data again finds as many (if not more) male victims of female rapists than female victims of male rapists. CDC continues to ignore its own shocking findings (27 June 2017)

http://owningyourshit.blogspot.com.au/search/label/sexual%20assault (A collection of very good blog posts on the subject – highly recommended)

http://glosswatch.com/2012/08/26/feminists-how-about-shutting-up-in-the-name-of-free-speech/ (Mod: This pro-feminist piece drips with sarcasm in discussing mens concerns about being shut out of the rape debate, but have a look at the readers comments for incisive comments from Mike Buchanan)

How one young feminist reacts angrily to being provided with a perspective on unwanted sexual advances that differs from her own (see first reader’s comment and her subsequent posts … she even calls him a “rape culture apologist”)

Some interesting comments about rape and related convictions by a retired female police officer and there is a similar discussion thread here

The flyers pictured below were distributed on USA college campuses … why not the same for both genders? Unless of course the underlying belief set was one of men bad/women good.

On the sexual assault of men/youth

UCLA Shock Study: Women Have Raped 3.6 Million American Men (4 August 2017)

Sexually violent women: The PID-5, everyday sadism, and adversarial sexual attitudes predict female sexual aggression and coercion against male victims (2017)

Male victims of sexual violence are being ignored by the government (21 December 2016) UK

Female sex predators: Why there are more of them than you think (1 December 2016)

It’s Not ‘Just a Women’s Issue.’ Men Are Survivors Too (7 March 2016) USA

Silent Suffering: Supporting the male survivors of sexual assault (2015) UK

Female prison guard rapes male inmate and the “legalization” of the rape of men by women (14 February 2016) Reddit mensrights discussion thread with linked papers

Hypocrisy: Transgender woman sent to male prison and suddenly people are concerned about prison rape (27 October 2015) Article here and discussion thread here

Britain needs to wake up to female sex offenders (22 August 2015)

Cierra Ross, Chicago Mom, Charged With Raping Man At Gunpoint (9 June 2015)

Female prison officers commit 90pc of sex assaults on male teens in US juvenile detention centres (1 April 2015)

Female Perpetrators and Male Victims of Sexual Assault: Why They are so Invisible (February 2009)

The Sexual Victimization of Men in America: New Data Challenge Old Assumptions (13 February 2014)

Shia LaBeouf Was ‘Raped’? You Must Be Kidding… (1 December 2014)

Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell, Don’t Think About It by Dean Esmay (14 November 2014)

What we aren’t talking about when we talk about #beenrapedneverreported (6 November 2014)

Megan Davis Hoelting charged with sexual assault of man in Texas (31 October 2014)

When women sexually assault men (9 October 2014)

About 14,000 Men In the Military Were Raped Last Year — Almost None Will Report It (14 October 2014)

http://www.avoiceformen.com/men/mens-issues/why-rape-is-seriously-hilarious/

http://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/1vv6zn/it_is_inappropriate_to_consider_as_a_rape_victim/ (But women can’t be rapists, silly!)

http://www.np.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/27axwi/serious_men_who_have_been_raped_by_women_what/

http://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/27m06h/the_sexual_victimization_of_men_in_america_new/?utm_source=twitterfeed&utm_medium=twitter

Men and boys get raped too (27 April 2014)

When men are raped (29 April 2014)

Told you so: Study finds women rape men more than you think (3 May 2014)

https://www.avoiceformen.com/allnews/feminist-professor-facing-sexual-assault-charges-after-having-a-sexual-relationship-with-profoundly-retarded-man/ (23 April 2014)

http://www.vocativ.com/underworld/crime/hard-truth-girl-guy-rape/

http://www.genderratic.com/p/4166/double-standards-the-feminisms-sexist-record-on-the-subject-of-rape/

https://ca.shine.yahoo.com/blogs/shine-on/myths-sexual-assault-against-men-150245248.html

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2449454/More-men-raped-US-women-including-prison-sexual-abuse.html

http://mensrightsmelbourne.com/2014/03/31/more-men-are-raped-in-the-us-than-women/

http://www.psypost.org/2014/03/coerced-sex-not-uncommon-for-young-men-and-teenage-boys-study-finds-23932

http://time.com/37337/nearly-half-of-young-men-say-theyve-had-unwanted-sex/

http://blogs.riverfronttimes.com/dailyrft/2014/04/boys_young_men_report_being_co.php

http://www.theage.com.au/travel/travel-incidents/alexandra-rose-williams-on-good-behaviour-bond-after-inflight-bum-grope-20140417-36tj2.html

It is generally recognised that males have a generally higher predisposition towards under-reporting incidents of sexual assault. This issue is discussed in the following two part blog post:

http://dontneedfeminism.tumblr.com/post/71294252715/40-of-rapists-are-women-yes-get-over-it and http://dontneedfeminism.tumblr.com/post/71294309366/oratorasaurus-40-of-rapists-are-women-yes-get-over

A reddit discussion thread at http://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/28ubfn/12_month_versus_lifetime_victimization_statistics/ looks at a statistical discrepancy between recall in relation to recent sexual assault versus assault experienced over their lifetimes.

http://textgameformen.com/2014/04/03/laci-green-clueless-about-men/

http://humantraffickingresearchpapers.wordpress.com/

http://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/21eh7w/working_in_a_night_club/

http://www.avoiceformen.com/misandry/boys-raped-more-often-than-girls/

http://tamenwrote.wordpress.com/2014/04/04/fbi-clarifies-definition-of-rape/ (Concerning the FBI definition of rape)

Other sources concerning sexual assault and unwanted sex

Hysteria Over Date Rape Drugs (15 June 2017)

Stanford releases survey results indicating 1.9% of all students experience sexual assault; receives protests (23 April 2016) USA. Reddit discussion thread

We need to fix our toxic rape laws before the names of more innocent men are trashed, by Alex Proud (18 April 2016) UK

Women’s Rights Groups Attack Study of Rapists Showing Attackers Likely to be 34-Year-Old, Jobless, Foreign Men (23 January 2016) France

Chrissie Hynde was right about rape. Now feminists want to silence her (31 August 2015)

Memphis woman charged with aggravated rape (24 June 2014)

Gender crazies make it official: the truth is ‘victim blaming’ (25 July 2014)

The startling facts on female sexual aggression, by Ally Fogg (4 September 2013)

On jury nullification and rape by Paul Elam (1 August 2010)

Iggy Azalea wants fans to stop trying to finger her (23 April 2014) and women are the worst offenders. Here is a related video and related discussion thread.

Anti-feminist woman speaks up about another woman’s claim of rape (31 May 2014)

So where does that ‘one women in five are sexually assaulted’ figure come from?

Hey Amanda Marcotte, did you know “1 in 5” is really 1 in 5,446? (10 May 2014)

http://www.avoiceformen.com/feminism/feminist-governance-feminism/legally-obscene/ (When do minors who are victims of sexual assault pay their attackers? When they are male!)

http://www.avoiceformen.com/allnews/ncfm-letter-concerning-female-only-self-defense-classes-causes-media-sensation/ and http://www.rawstory.com/rs/2014/03/28/mens-rights-group-claims-free-self-defense-classes-for-women-are-sexist/ (Government-funded self-defence classes for women only – why?)

And finally the graphic shown below was sourced from this site.

Rape_stats

Other related posts within this blog

A case-study of feminism in action – The Mercier Affair
On the feminist myth of ‘rape culture’
Domestic violence is not a gendered issue – So why the sexist bias against men?
More invisible male victims of rape
Paedophilia and underage sex
On the issue of traveller safety
On the issue of false allegations of sexual assault

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